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1. Introduction

Fellowship of His Sufferings is the fourth of the fellowships we have with God.

The first we enter into is Fellowship in the Gospel, followed by Fellowship with Holy Spirit and Fellowship with His Son.

When we become a believer in Jesus, we know He forgives us. This child-like faith acknowledges the kingdom of God is within us. God does not want us to stop at this Fellowship in the gospel, so He encourages us to have Holy Spirit come upon us through baptism in the Holy Spirit. This allows fellowship with Holy Spirit to grown and mature.


2. What is the Fellowship of His Suffering?

Jesus suffered at the hands of the Pharisees and Sadducees. Then He also suffered in the garden of Gethsemane in His struggle to do the will of God. He suffered as a result of His twelve apostles, leaving Him, denying Him, not understanding or believing in Him. And Jesus suffered at the hands of the mob who sent Him to die. He also suffered at the hands of Pontius Pilate and the Roman soldiers.

As with Paul, a call into the ministry is a call into a fellowship of suffering:

that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death, if, by any means, I may attain to the resurrection from the dead.

Philippians 3:10


3. How can we Fellowship with His Sufferings?

Fellowship in suffering can be some of the most precious we can experience. Facing persecution, concern for the church(es) lack, sickness, can bring us into a place of intimacy with God as we find how much He loves us.

It is a place where we bring our needs to Him, because He cares for us:

casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.

1 Peter 5:7

God understands that we live in a world that allows suffering due to the fall of Adam and Eve. He understands that there are good people, but there are also people who are evil because they love the darkness more than the light. Therefore Jesus suffered these abuses too.


4. Purpose of this Fellowship

A. Becoming Like Jesus

The New Covenant brings victory over sin, sickness and torment. However it brings with it suffering and persecution. When someone abuses us or speaks against us it is easy to retaliate, however that is not the way of the gospel.

B. To Grow in Grace

Paul’s ‘thorn in the flesh’ was not sickness, but rather a person who was tormenting him, keeping him humble:

And lest I should be exalted above measure by the abundance of the revelations, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I be exalted above measure.

2 Corinthians 12:7

When it uses the word messenger of Satan it is the word aggelos where we get angel from. It is defined as a demon or person of evil intent.

We know that humility brings grace:

But He gives more grace. Therefore He says:
“God resists the proud,
But gives grace to the humble.”

James 4:6

C. To Grow from Glory to Glory

God wants us to grow from glory to glory. So Jesus suffered to bring glory upon us:

For it was fitting for Him, for whom are all things and by whom are all things, in bringing many sons to glory, to make the captain of their salvation perfect through sufferings.

Hebrews 2:10

The stepping stone from one level of glory to another level of glory is usually suffering:

The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him, that we may also be glorified together.
For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.

Romans 8:16-18

Just because we suffer, does not mean we automatically grow from glory to glory. We need to make sure that we have the right attitude as well.

D. Resurrection Life

Paul teaches us that if we want to have resurrection life flowing through us into others (which releases healing, deliverance and victory over death) then that comes through suffering.

that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death, if, by any means, I may attain to the resurrection from the dead.

Philippians 3:10


5. Dangers of false Fellowship of His Sufferings

If we dwell too much on our sufferings we can move into a poverty mindset, or self-pity, or persecution complex. It can also become a place of begging that is not healthy. These attitudes can stop the growth of grace and glory in our lives.
God will never turn away someone who comes with a contrite heart and a broken spirit:

“But on this one will I look:
On him who is poor and of a contrite spirit,
And who trembles at My word.

Isaiah 66:2


God does not want us to stay in self-pity, or poverty mindset, He wants us to grow in faith:

But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.

Hebrews 11:6


It is a very real danger for a minister to camp in self-pity, losing closeness with God, due to the demands of ministry. It is essential for a leader to keep the ministry priorities balanced with the other priorities of life: Fellowship with God, Marriage, parenting, finances.

Therefore strengthen the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees, and make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame may not be dislocated, but rather be healed.

Hebrews 12:12-13


6. Escaping the snare

A. Speaking out the Word of God

When we HEAR the word of God it produces faith:

So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

Romans 10:17

B. Praise and Worship

When we praise God we focus on the goodness and greatness of God, not our problems

And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another in the fear of God.

Ephesians 5:18-21


7. Summary

After Fellowship in the Gospel, then Fellowship with Holy Spirit and Fellowship with His Son comes this fellowship which is equally precious compared to the others. Participating in the same sufferings as Jesus comes with great rewards of resurrection life, grace and growth in glory.
But it comes with a snare of falling into discouragement, self-pity or poverty mindset.
The way out of this is through declaring the word of God and praise and worship.

Next we will look at the final and possibly most powerful fellowship, Fellowship with the Mystery of His Will.


© Use by Permission. Awakening Impact Ministries/ Dr Neville van Eerten 2021